How to continue a conversation in English
It has probably happened to you that after spending a more or less long time studying English, you have had a bad experience because when communicating with a native English speaker you have not understood it and naturally, you are tormented by the idea that it has not helped you at all two years of study of that language. But do not despair, you are not the first and unfortunately not the last.
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In this article we promise to provide you with a series of tips that will allow you to bury that bad experience forever, we, therefore, hope that our suggestions can help you to succeed in new conservation and cheer you up for when you are again involved in a conversation with an English.
Pay maximum attention
At first, it will take some work for you to understand what a native English speaker is saying to you and this is totally normal. You do not have to have any qualms about asking him to speak more slowly and if you tell him that you are learning his language, but that he still does not have practice, it is almost certain that your interlocutor will be friendly and willing to help you. Everyone likes that a foreigner is interested in learning their language.
As is normal when we speak in Spanish we feel safe and relaxed, these are the two qualities that you must exhibit to speak a foreign language. Relaxation comes on purpose with our first recommendation, that is, be humble and ask the favor of your conversationalist to speak slowly to you, because being relaxed is the prelude to feeling safe, and nothing better for this than paying maximum attention.
English will realize that you are trying to understand it and that you pay the utmost attention and there is no greater pride for anyone from any country, that someone puts the utmost interest in understanding it in their own language.
Do not faint
It is good to learn pre-set phrases that help us to ask please to repeat what you have not understood as “ could you, please, repeat that? Could you repeat that please? That will get us out of trouble, without a doubt, without you having to blush for it because English will politely answer you and will try to speak to you more slowly.
It is true that sometimes it can give us trouble to request that they repeat the phrases, but even if in the same conversation you have requested it more than once, you do not care, the person in front will understand it and will like your desire to learn.
Hold a conversation
It can be difficult to carry on a conversation. Even if you understand what the other person is saying, you may feel “blocked” or “frozen” when it is your turn to speak. The words or phrases you need don’t usually come to mind quickly enough.
The more opportunities you have to use and speak English, the easier it will be to find the right words when you need them. Take every opportunity you get to use your English! Check out how to practice your English for lots of ideas for finding opportunities to speak.
Expressions to learn by heart
Below we transcribe the most appropriate expressions to maintain a fluent conversation with English:
- Sorry, I didn’t catch that –
Perdona, no he entendido eso.
- Could you say that again? –
¿Puedes repetir lo que has dicho?
- I’m afraid my English is not very good, could you speak slower? –
Perdona, mi inglés no es muy bueno, ¿podrías hablar más despacio?
- Do you mean that…? –
Quieres decir que…
Don’t try to understand everything either
Of course, all things take their time, and learning English requires that, time, so it is not advisable to pretend to understand everything in a conversation, because you run the risk of becoming “heavy” asking questions, you just have to ask the necessary ones. Otherwise, the dialogue will be boring both for the English and for you. Also, if you try to keep each word, chances are that when they finish the sentence you will have forgotten everything.
It’s about picking up and learning certain words and using context to form an idea of what they are saying to you. Although it sounds complicated, it is something that our brain does quite intuitively.
Example
- At a Bus Stop
- Miguel: Pardon me, do you know which bus I should take to Grand Central Station?
En una parada de autobús.
Miguel: Perdón, ¿sabes qué bus debo tomar hasta la estación Grand Central.
- Liz: You can take bus 3 or bus 12, I think.
Liz: Creo que puedes tomar el autobús 3 o el autobús 12.
- Miguel: Thanks. I’ve just arrived in New York and I’m a bit lost.
Miguel: Gracias. Acabo de llegar a Nueva York y estoy un poco perdido.
- Liz: Oh! Where are you from? Are you Italian?
Liz: ¡Oh! ¿De donde eres? ¿Eres italiano?
- Miguel: No, I’m Spanish.
Miguel: No, soy español.
- Liz: Is that like Italian?
Liz: ¿Eso es italiano?
- Miguel: I guess so… Spain is in Europe. It’s close to Italy. Kind of.
Miguel: Supongo que sí… España está en Europa. Está cerca de Italia. Más o menos.
- Liz: Wow, I love your accent!
Liz: ¡Vaya, me encanta tu acento!
- Miguel: Thanks. I’m taking English classes every day. I’m getting better. So what do you do, Liz?
Miguel: Gracias. Tomo clases de inglés todos los días. Estoy mejorando. Entonces, ¿qué haces, Liz?
- Liz: I’m studying graphic design.
Liz: Estoy estudiando diseño gráfico.
- Miguel: That’s interesting. Do you like art?
Miguel: Eso es interesante. ¿Te gusta el arte?
- Liz: Yes, I do!
Liz: ¡Sí, lo hago!
- Miguel: That’s interesting… I really love art. Would you like to go to an art museum with me this weekend?
Miguel: Eso es interesante … Me encanta el arte. ¿Te gustaría ir conmigo a un museo de arte este fin de semana?
- Liz: Sure, why not?
Liz: Claro, ¿por qué no?
- Miguel: Great! Can I have your phone number?
Miguel: ¡Genial! ¿Puedo tener tu número de teléfono?
- Liz: Okay!
Liz: ¡Está bien!
And these are all the tips that we hope will help you to have a conversation in English!